Dear friends,
I
will now continue telling you my story. When I was in high school, I was still
quite unsure of what I wanted to do with my life after graduation. I knew I
wanted to go to college, but there were a million of possibilities… In the first
semester of my senior year I started working on college applications; I sent
out apps to several schools in California, some of which were close to home,
and then to one which was much further away, the American University in Bulgaria.
My
parents and I visited AUBG when we were visiting Bulgaria the year before and
thought that going there was definitely an option. AUBG is a private,
American-style liberal arts university located in Blagoevgrad. Blagoevgrad is a
rather small city in southwestern Bulgaria that lies at the foot of the
Rila and Pirin Mountains. There were a number of pros that we could think of
that helped me make up my mind to continue my higher education exactly there.
First of all, since my parents were thinking about moving back to Bulgaria,
they thought it would be a good idea for me to try to catch up on the culture,
traditions and customs of the country. Second, since I spent years missing my
friends and family back in Bulgaria, they thought that sending me there would
be the perfect opportunity to get reunited with all of them. Third, the
financial factor surely had some influence on our decision. I got accepted to
almost all the California schools that I applied to, but some were extremely
expensive. Going to AUBG and getting an American education, while reconnecting
with my roots, seemed like the perfect fit at the time. All my Bulgarian
friends and family were happy to hear that I was considering coming back home
for school and all my American friends thought that studying abroad was “so
cool” and “an experience of a lifetime,” so I decided to got fot it.
If you ask me whether I would make the same decision now that I’ve experienced AUBG and Bulgaria, I would still have a hard time making up my mind. The truth is that there are some things and people that I love here, in Bulgaria, and other things and friends that I miss every day, who are in the US. This is the thing about growing up in two different countries: I will never be one hundred percent sure which one I prefer. I like traveling from one place to the other; I like catching up with the important people in my life; I like getting the best of both worlds.
If you ask me whether I would make the same decision now that I’ve experienced AUBG and Bulgaria, I would still have a hard time making up my mind. The truth is that there are some things and people that I love here, in Bulgaria, and other things and friends that I miss every day, who are in the US. This is the thing about growing up in two different countries: I will never be one hundred percent sure which one I prefer. I like traveling from one place to the other; I like catching up with the important people in my life; I like getting the best of both worlds.
You really seem to be doing the smart thing and exploring the best of both worlds. Your unique perspective makes me want to hear more :)
ОтговорИзтриванеThank you Eli! I've been enjoying going back and forth, it's been a lot of fun, but now that we are almost done with college, I will have to officially decide where to settle and look for a job. I am leaning more towards going back to the States.
ИзтриванеYou know, I have always thought about that, since I've been considering settling down abroad once I graduate. However, the idea that I will be away from my family and friends is just too scary. I believe you have to be very strong to do that.
ОтговорИзтриванеBoryana Kaisheva
You're right Bobi, it sure is scary. The feeling of nostalgy definitely takes over sometimes. The sad thing about our country though is that so many people are leaving or will be after they are out of college... I wish things were different here in Bulgaria :/
ИзтриванеGo for it! I think you will do great!
ОтговорИзтриванеThank you! I hope so, too :)
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